Tenuous Ties
A Transgendered Couples Journey
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This book deals with transgendered relationships, although the basic concepts stated will apply in any committed relationship. In most cases, too often we fall in love for the wrong reasons, believing that we can change our lives, get out of a rut and acquire characteristics we don't have. We can't, but that does not stop our unrealistic hopes and dreams.
Far too often, one remains "in the closet" for the transgendered individual exists as a threat, in some cases, to families, friends and working associates. Who are these people, you may ask, have I met any of them? The answer is yes, as it is estimated that one out of every ten males wear some article of female clothing.
What is the lure of the feminine mystique that entices men to adopt the clothing and style of the opposite sex? Is it congenital or is it a learned response? Or is it a behavioral affectation of the time? To these questions, there has been much research on the topic but as yet no definite answers as to the perplexing role of the heterosexual crossdresser or that of the emerging transsexual.
This book is dedicated to the women in my life who have tolerated to some extent my crossdressing and to Jeanette who made me realize the full appreciation of the feminine ideal in her caring and thoughtful approach to making it a reality. The ideas and concepts expressed in this book came from discussions with her as well as various transgendered clients who have come to our center concerned about their relationships for there is very little published about heterosexual crossdressing,
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Then he tells you “ Ilike to dress up as a women”, and the journey begins. It feels like your whole world is falling apart! Then there are the questions, the concerns, the judgement, and the desire to run away. Thus what do you do with this information? Who do you tell? How crazy is this? What will people say? What will they say about me? Why can’t this just be a normal relationship!
Well, that’s how the story began. And you have the unique opportunity to see how this journey has progressed from fear and uncertaincy to understanding and acceptance. Creating a healthy transgendered relationship based on the deepest level of respect, is an incredulous journey, indeed!
Join Dr’s Jeanette Bevilacqua and Arthur “Alycia” Ellison as they openly share their journey of determination to create a healthy and harmonious relationship—despite the challenges. Relationships issues come in all shapes and sizes and the lessons learned here are applicable to a wide variety of Relationship issues. Take charge of your challenges and enjoy the Incredible rewards of your effort. Then you realize that your journey is just that, your journey!! Trust the process.
About the Author
Dr. Arthur Ellison retired in 1991 from academic Medicine after a lengthy teaching and research career in Pharmacology and Ophthalmology at various medical schools. Dr. Ellison is currently in practice with Dr. Jeanette Bevilacqua.
Dr, Jeanette Bevilacqua is a Nurse Psychotherapist with 25 yrs. of practice and extensive experience with transgendered individuals and their families and has had an extensive academic career in various universities in nursing and counseling programs.
Their extensive background in transgender life style issues allows them to deal effectively with this complex physical and emotion issue see www.crossdressing-couples.com