The Buck Stops With You
When Leaders Lead, Employees Become Motivated
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Hostage: A student who doesn't want to attend a training class, seminar or presentation for any number of reasons but has been told to do so. Usually this objection to attending is due to the student's distorted judgment that multiple years of experience as a manager equates to knowing all there is in management. During a recent presentation, one of these hostages had a profound impact on me, spurring me to write The Buck Stops With You. I overheard the hostage telling another participant prior to my seminar, that his attendance at Motivating Employees Using Common Sense was going to be a waste of his precious time because he had 20 years of experience as a manager. Prior to kicking off my presentation, the human resources professional who hired me, gave me some insight on one unwilling participant. The HR professional said this hostage would likely give me a hard time and that I should not feel the least bit shy about hurting the hostage's feelings or possibly using this hostage to make a point with the rest of the leaders. I thanked the HR professional for the scouting report. Near the beginning of my presentation, I asked the question, "How many of you don't want to be here today?" I guess you could say it was my way of breaking the ice just a bit not only with this hostage, but any other prisoners lurking in the audience. Predictably, the hostage along with a few others shot their hand straight up. I then said, "If any of you don't want to be here today, who do you have a debate with? If you are thinking me, I just figured out why you are here today! If you do not want to be here, you have a debate with the person who asked you to be here. Make their life miserable if you must, but please be respectful to me and others here today. I'm here to make your jobs as leaders easier." Feeling a bit blindsided, the hostage raised his hand and said, "What can you do to make my life easier as a manager?" I thanked this person for their valid question. I then asked, "What is currently happening on your team today that is causing you concern?" The hostage replied he had a bunch of employees who were demotivated. I thanked this person for their situation and kindly asked how many people work for you today? The prisoner responded, "About half!" The audience chuckled in amusement. I then asked the prisoner if I could ask him a couple of questions to better understand his situation. Predictably, he agreed. My first question centered on whether he felt at all responsible for the attitude of his employees. He simply responded, "It is hard to find good people these days!" I asked him why he felt compelled to throw his employees under the bus and wash his hands of any responsibility for their current attitudes. He simply looked at me with a confused and dazed look. I said, "In my professional opinion, you want to play the victim. You feel as though you are entitled to motivated employees." I then proceeded to explain all the obligations he and everyone else in the audience had to fulfill as a leader. If anyone was unwilling to perform any of these obligations they could not sit here and complain about the attitude of their employees. I wound up our brief conversation by saying, "The next two hours will greatly benefit your team, your career and the folks who brought me here today because The Bucks Stops With You! On that day, the hostage inspired me to write a book on how often managers like to blame their employees for having poor attitudes, yet are unwilling to look in the mirror and ask what thye could have done to cause their employees to react this way. Managers who feel entitled to motivated employees or who enjoy, "Passing the buck" on their leadership responsibilities will greatly benefit from The Buck Stops with You!
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About the Book
The Buck Stops With You! provides common sense strategies and practical tips to help today's workplace managers motivate subordinates.
Motivational speaker John Graci sends the message loud and clear: Leaders have the power to help employees feel good when they come to work, but they also have that same power to make employees feel miserable.
John's unique ability to look at the leader/employee relationship in no-nonsense terms allows him to coach managers through the process of changing their employees' attitudes and performance as they apply the kind of techniques that will help them:
- Involve employees in change
- Accept different value systems
- Practice constant and open communication
- Challenge others to grow and develop
John's advice has helped leaders at all levels fully understand the amount of power they possess in motivating employees to work harder, faster, and smarter. Whether you manage in a production, service or office environment, union or non-union, Graci's realistic scenarios and anecdotes will encourage all managers to rethink their leadership style.
About the Author
John Graci, Keynote speaker, Author and Director of Leadership Training
When you combine the charisma, passion and energy John Graci brings to a room, with a wonderful sense of humor spawned from his days as a major market radio announcer, you have the necessary ingredients for an entertaining keynote speaker. John has been delighting audiences from Fortune 500 companies to small business owners for the past 11 years with his practical approach to motivation. He's performed at locations ranging from the Mirage in Las Vegas to overnight company retreats located in International Falls, MN!
John addresses thousands of men and women each year on the subject of professional development. He brings real life examples to his audiences. He has the unique ability to tactfully help leaders understand how they might be practicing management without a license. His distinctive approach to everyday situations involving employee/boss relationships will have audience members wondering why they have been doing things the hard way all of these years. John's ability to rapidly produce these "Ah Ha" Moments will instantly create an environment where your leaders will be open to change, thus more receptive to taking on the skills they need to be effective in their position.
The popularity of his keynote presentation, Motivating Employees Using Common Sense, motivated John to publish his first book in the fall of 2009, "The Buck Stops With You." The book will focus on teaching supervision/management from an in-the-trenches perspective. Actual techniques you can use, no theory! When recently asked if the tone of the book will differ at all from his no-nonsense approach presentation style, John simply said, "I will give you the same sage advice your grandmother would have given you, however, I will keep my teeth in!"
John leads a team of highly skilled leadership consultants that work with over 5,000 students each year. He has extensive experience in banking; call center, warehouse and factory environments. John received his bachelor's degree in Speech Communication from the University of Wisconsin River Falls before working with Space Center, Inc., KLBB Radio, US Bank, State Farm and Employers Association, Inc.