The Discussion

From: "Dee Dee" To: foxxy, Tracyw, Monica. Subject: To my Daughters Date: Sat, 08 Sep 2007 06:51:40 +0000 Good morning my daughters. Just getting around to emailing you this message from me concerning your children and my relationship. Now it appears that my grand-daughter, Stacy has been telling her mother things in confidence concerning, why she do not want to stay with me along with other complaints she has with me. Well, I just want to tell all of you this now so I do I have to go through this again. If your children comes to you with a complaint about me, please do not partner with them by justifying their complaints. Please do not let your children manipulate you by allowing them to speak against your mother just because I will not let them do what they want around me okay. Your job as parents is to raise them to understand that they are the children not your partners. Tracy if Stacy ever comes to you again telling you that she is having a problem with me, her grandmother, I hope you will be parent enough to tell her to come and talk to me. For you to allow her to confide in you the things that brothers her concerning me; then expose it in during a moment of dialog between Stacy and I is very immature on your part. You are her parent. So in closing please understand me daughters when I say this; your children are your children; You are my children and that is enough for me. I do not want your children around me if they do not want to be around me. I was born without them and I can live without them if they are having a hard time with me being their grandmother. Please explain this to them so that I won't have too okay, but if you don't explain it to them I will. I do not want to see color on their toes or nails until they are 16 years old please. If I see them with color on their toes and nails then I will confront them every time. So since I do not live around them just tell them to respect my wishes when I come around them. Just wanted to make sure I informed you all concerning this issue. There will be no passes if I am confronted by any of you in front of your children about things I told them not to do around me okay. Make sure you inform their daddys' so if they have anything to say they can say it to me now. Much Love for my children!! Mother -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- From: "Tracy" To: dee.dee, foxxy, Monica Subject: RE: To my Daughters Date: Sat, 08 Sep 2007 09:18:08 -0400 To my mother: Thanks for the pass. That means God gave you one as well. Please know that what you do to me you do to my Father. I am in CHRIST JESUS. So if you want to continue let Satan trick you and deceive you..........carry on! As for my child if you do not want to see polish on her then I suppose it's best that we see you in 2 years. I am not going to allow you to rule and reign over my household. You never permitted anyone to rule and reign yours. Your demands will not govern me nor my child. I suppose you demanding gives you some type of power, but it is not of God and that spirit will not go around regulating things...at least not here. As for my daughter, you can speak to her and tell her how you feel, but if you don't do it with the help of God you are only destroying the relationship between you . If it means more that you get your way in this LIFE than to walk in the love described in I Corinthians 3, then carry on! So my concern, after reading what love is, is that you continue to enforce WHAT YOU WANT, and WHAT YOU SAY, this is not of God and that spirit has no power here.