When Did You Know ...

About the Book

FASINATING, REAL-LIFE ACCOUNTS DEPICT THE EXACT MOMENT WHEN 41 WOMEN REALIZE THE MEN IN THEIR LIVES ARE "NOT THE ONE."

For too many women, there comes a time in their lives when they recognize that the relationship with their significant other isn't working. In When Did You Know He Was Not the One? authors Judy Bolton and Wendy Bolton Floyd take a provocative look at this precise moment in the lives of more than forty women who are married, single, divorced, widowed, or currently dating.

Each story paints a fascinating portrait of the instant each woman realizes the man she is with is not the man for her. For a number of these women, the conclusion developed over time after years of nagging feelings. Even though they knew it wasn't going to last, many still tried to make the relationship work.

Whether the problem is cross-dressing, religious differences, infidelity, or any other concern, the women featured in When Did You Know He Was Not the One? bravely share their stories in ways that are poignant, comical, and moving, offering insight into the complexity of relationships.

What people are saying about When Did You Know He Was Not the One?

"It is the next Vagina Monologues!"-Lillias White, Tony Award Best Featured Actress, Known for her work in the Vagina Monologues and Chicago

"When Did You Know He Was Not the One" reads like your best friend hitting you over the head every time you gush about a man they instinctively know will ruin your life."-Keris Salmon, Producer, NBC Dateline

"Judy Bolton and Wendy Bolton Floyd have put every woman's history with men between two book covers."-Debbie Humes, Writer, ABC Good Morning America and America This Morning

"Life always presents us with challenges, but it's a humbling experience to realize when we've brought them on ourselves. 'Not the One' demonstrates that women are not alone in their relationship struggles."-Khalia Ali, Daughter of Muhammad Ali

"Contributing to this book helped me as much as when I first realized he was not the one-and made positive changes in my life to move on."-Maureen "Moe" Shea, Professional boxer and main sparring partner for actress Hilary Swank, as she prepared for her Academy Award winning role in the movie Million Dollar Baby

About the Author

JUDY BOLTON
is a psychotherapist and specializes in family and marital issues. She is a graduate of Columbia University. She has appeared in Newsday and numerous newspapers and has appeared on television and radio programs including; the Rachael Ray show, CBS News and Montel Williams. She is a contributing writer for Lifetimetv.com and YahooPersonals.com and serves as spokesperson for Yahoo! National Break-up Season. She is also the founder of Dreams For A Day, an organization which makes dreams come true for terminally ill adults. Judy currently resides in Long Island, New York with her two sons.

WENDY BOLTON FLOYD is a contributing writer for Lifetimetv.com and YahooPersonals.com and serves as spokesperson for Yahoo! National Break-up Season. She has appeared on the Rachael Ray show and countless news programs across the country and has been a guest on several radio shows. She has been featured in the The Orlando Sentinel and other major newspapers. Wendy holds a M.A. degree from the New York City University, Queens College and currently resides in Long Island, New York with her husband and children.