The Precept
What if you could stop that Nigga's bullshit before it happens?
"Changing the past"
Do you ever wish you could change the past? If you could change the past, you would
Be able to correct every mistake, avoid every accident, and never experience the pain of regret.
In fact, you can very easily change the past. You simply must do it before the past becomes the past. This very moment where you are right now will soon be in the past. So now is your golden opportunity to assure that it will be a past you'll be pleased to have.
With care and focus with love, discipline and positive intention, you can do just that. You can change what will soon be the past into the best it can be.
Imagine not having to wonder what would have happened if only you had been a little more careful, thoughtful or diligent. Imagine living your life with no regrets.
Imagine it, and know that right now is your chance to make so. Use this moment to give yourself a past that won't need any changes at all.
--Ralph Marston
What if you could prevent disastrous life changing events before they happen and leave his ass at the bus stop where you found him?
Women who give power to the unpredictability of life negate their own influence and power to take charge of not only the outcome but also the size and shape of their own situation before hand. The Precept cuts to the chase and intercepts the bullshit before its six-month's later to the day you wish you never met that sorry ass nigga. In theory the Man-You-All is designed to stop black women before they choose black men with their pussy instead of their heads.
(Hint: Usually the first question women ask a man is the most unimportant)
This is not a game, your time money & energy cannot be taken back, returned or swapped out for another purchase item nor can it be given back to you in exchange for credit on your account. In theory, the Man-You-All is designed to stop black women and keep them from consistently making the same faux pa's when meeting someone either by chance or calculated spontaneity. The Precept is the science of logical selection that defeats the lazy tendencies to "just let things happen". Just letting things happen causes humans more grief than anything.
The game is, not to game with the basic principle of engagement but to clearly define what you can deal with.
• What do you want and how do you want it?
Women must know what they want from any encounter that occurs. These are things that need to be thought out first before the throbbing of your clitoris takes over. The Precept is a concept that states that truth is individualized and only revealed to the woman who uses it. Application of any truth is one form of a working reality with self and kind.
(Reality - if you want a man; do not waste time with any other misdirection or meandering around what you want. The game's women play, though fun, and end up confusing not just the dumb ass listening to it but also the proprietor of said bullshit.)
The friend to lover is horse shit! This kind of fool proof thinking only works in a world of make believe. Men want your pussy primarily and your resources secondarily, period. Take control! Do you want the dick or the promenade that is convincing him that you are not a whore? You can burn his plans of deceit and treachery by owning your sexuality and not running from your pussy. It is not morals or discipline you’re installing at that moment of confrontation with temptation; it is fear of the fact that the bare essence of you is out of control and you are ill equipped to deal with it. Let him know up front with no hesitation or fear and remove expectation with a real working situation. Or you could wait until you’re slashing his tires and ask why couldn't he love you, because you started off with "he's just a friend", that's why. If “he is just a sex buddy” is real first; CAN YOU HANDLE IT? The truth is that very few black women can handle it.
(Hint: Stop justifying your motives or action. Men don't care how virtuous or whatever cliché black woman spew. Perception does not matter when it is time to have sex.)
The black women must come clean and decide who she is. ARE YOU A:
1. JUST A SEX PARTNER
2. SERIAL MONOGaMIST
3. RELATIONSHIP WOMAN
4. MARRIAGE WOMAN
Only you can reveal these things to yourselves. The basic principle of a companion-based encounter is to treat every meeting, no matter how incidental, with respect and importance. Because those that do not show reverence for the situation, six months later deserve what they get, a heaping flaming bag of shit. When you leave important self-defining issues open for ambiguous interpretation, you will not be happy with the result. The problem is choice. Who are you when it comes to dealing with black men?
Just a sex partner - this type is rare because of the discipline and isolation of "SUPPOSE TO" in contrast of who she is and the liberation sex provides. Black women never learn to out grow the MINE STAGE. Black women believe that there’s only one DICK and that DICK is theirs. MINE- MINE - MINE is sprawled out and their childish greed cripples their sexual maturation. Women who conquer the mine phase have healthier sexual experiences and are more in tune with mind over matter. The just a sex partner reaches a nirvana of deep intro-personal perfection and is closer to conquering the tools of deceit that men use because she can mirror his apparent abandonment for restrictive sexual codes of conduct.
The Serial Monogamist - has one rule. I can only fuck one man at a time. This is because the moral affinity disassociates any resemblance to whoredom. The Serial Monogamist is bound by "The Rule" because she alone will uphold the morals and decency that a lady is "SUPPOSE TO" exhibit.
(Hint: The same people and religious bodies who create codes of ethics and morals about sex never follow them and are the most sexual deviant people on the face of the earth. Why do you think people go to church to find a freak? The best freaks sit near the preacher, I promise. They are not hypocrites. They just fall in line with natural frailties, but they fall harder because they try to work against innate probated sexual progressions.)
Serial monogamist follow a second parameter, they only stay in a relationship with a person, man/woman, for six to eight months and then continuously repeat the cycle. The reason is their fear of commitment, disappointment and the fact that they will be exposed as a fraud as a human. Remember, perception plays an important part as well because the way the black woman looks aesthetically is the only thing that matters. "I'm in a relationship with one person although I already have the next five lined up". Family and friends judge because it looked good on paper; when the body (man) is gone it always ends up, it was the man's fault. Who can question or bring inquiry to a dead corpse? And isn't it the woman’s side that really matters after all is said and done. In its totality, black men might as well wear a T-shirt that reads "I DID IT", because his side of the story has no side, front, back or foundation.
The Serial Monogamist justifies their actions to fuck and pleasure themselves under the invisible cloak or monogamy and all other aspects of a relationship become meaningless clichés that she uses, cycle after cycle.
Relationship woman - these women need a relationship to complete the Afro - American dream that black men adopted but took back to the orphanage. She must now carry on because of new financial prosperity and new gender role reversal. Black women feel if a black man enters their sacred place, not their mind but their pussy, they are in a relationship, period. There is nothing to discuss or question.
What is a relationship?
Relationship - connection, a significant connection or similarity between two or more things, and the state of being related to something else. 2. Connections in regard to how people behave and