Arno Ilic is a business consultant by trade. He has always been interested in writing but has mostly been involved in technical writing. He and his wife have a very close relationship that has been nurtured through 36 years of marriage. At one point he noticed that the relationship was drifting, so he decided to recommit to the relationship by focusing on what is right with his partner. Why did he marry this person, and what was it about her that attracted him? So in answering these questions, he started writing notes that eventually led to his first book, Letters in the Lunchbag. While lunch bag is typically one word he has used this mispelled word to say that not everything needs to conform.